zekone
Hi! I'm a boar called zekone (zek for short!), which is pronounced "zehck-own" or "zehck". I'm non-binary and use they/them pronouns.This site contains more info about me, and how to contact me. However, some of the content is of a mature and adult nature, so please click below to confirm you're over 18 and want to see the rest of the site!
About me
I'm a bisexual, versatile, switch. And very kinky. I regularly attend various furry, pup, and kink events in the UK.I currently live in Staffordshire, UK, but have lived all over the UK in the past.I have a number of disabilities, including a chronic pain condition called fibromyalgia, myalgic encephalomyelitis/chronic fatigue syndrome (ME/CFS), irritable bowel syndrom (IBS), autism, ADHD, and dyslexia.I am very open about my disabilities and have spoken about them on a nmber of panel events, so if you have any questions, let me know.I'm also very open about my kinky side, as its a part of my identity that is very important to me. It allows me to connect with others in intense, caring, and unforgettable ways.
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Safewords
Consent is the cornerstone of all sex and kink that I do. I want open communication on limits and desires, and refuse to play with anyone who does not do that.I use the traffic lights system of safewords, with the addition of "blue":
| Safeword | Response |
|---|---|
| Red | Stop all play immediately, start aftercare. Deescallate in a safe way, ensuring all participants are physically, mentally, and emotionally safe. |
| Yellow | Pause or hold a bit. Can be used with specific activities to communicate that I don't want any more of that, e.g. "yellow, biting" to indicate I don't want any more biting. |
| Green | Everything's good, carry on! |
| Blue | Go harder! This is useful to communicate that someone would like an increase in the intensity of play, but not particularly a change in it. |
| "What colour are you?" | I may ask this during a scene to check-in and make sure you are still able to safeword. No reply will indicate a "red". |
If someone is unable to speak for some reason, or I'm in a situation where it is hard to hear them, then I use taps (onto a part of my body or a hard object nearby) as safewords:
| Safeword | Action |
|---|---|
| Slow/moderate tapping | Equivalent to "yellow" above. |
| Hard/fast tapping | Equivalent to "red" above. |
In these situations, I will usually place the sub's hand on a part of my body so I can feel them easily and quickly.